It must be frustrating knowing that you SIL is still calling the shots. I have the same problem with LRT and NC. My W does not respond well to either. I am at the same juncture that you are right now. Hugs
I'm having trouble understanding this. What is "not responding well"? Of course the WAS subconsciously wants to be chased after. They don't want you to ACTUALLY move on. So of course they aren't going to LIKE the LRT.