Of course you would do it all over again. I think we all would. I certainly don't regret marrying my W for an instant. I don't regret either of my children. My regrets all about the way I treated her and the person I became. But whatever pain I'm feeling now doesnt come close to canceling out the 15 incredible years she's given me or the two joys of my life that will be with me for many years to come.