JMHO - but I don't think filming your W is a good way to go if you hope to try and save your M. It may just be best to reflect on the feedback and see if there is anything for yourself that you can take from it. V posted some insightful questions on Bob's sitch about the difficult text he just had.

It may just be anger talking from your W, but it is always worth having a good look at the feedback, after which time you may decide to discard it. This is a difficult question to ask, but is it possible that your behaviour may have been such that at times it could have been perceived as abusive?

An occasional poster - Joe - received similar feedback from his W. You may find it useful to have a look at his posts from that time too...maybe 5/6 months ago...

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus