Thanks for the support, gang! I'm handling the revelation well. It probably helped that I had a previously scheduled play date with my best friend and his son immediately after STBX left. However, I know to expect the ups as well as the downs. In all of this chit, I did hear STBX take on a bit more ownership of her actions. So that's a consolation prize, I guess.

I know enough from the boards that this isn't the end. I also know that the sooner I come to grips with reality, the better off I will be.

The good news is I have some fun plans with friends at the zoo. They are putting on an event with beer and a Beatles tribute band. Then, I will be rooting for my boys in the college World Series tonight.

Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15