Jer, I was so pleased to read your update. I'm new to the MLC part of the forum, but have posted in infidelity for a while. It truly sounds like you have come a long way in recent months. Particularly in terms of forgiveness, and being able to meet the AP and feel so detached. That's such an achievement.
I'm so pleased you are settling into your new place. I moved out of our MH at BD and lived with my parents for almost 5 months. I was so excited to get a place of my own again, and I really enjoyed doing things to it without reference to anyone else. It must feel great to be at peace more, and in your own environment.
I was interested to read about the card. When I visited our MH recently, H had cleared his desk of papers. It had been overflowing, and was completely clear. He had kept something we did together just before BD, and it really surprised me that he hadn't tossed it. I think it is part of that push/pull of MLC. One the one hand, they want to boot you right out of their life. Yet on another, there is a pull back towards what has been lost.
Best wishes to you going forwards!
T xx
Last edited by Toots; 06/13/1504:27 PM.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
