As long as W is staying away from me it just doesn't matter
Perhaps an additional way to word that - as long as she doesn't want to work on the marriage/relationship, it is of no consequence.
Try not to get too caught up in the drama of a person trying to find themselves. i.e. don't be the fixer, be the friend if you can. Sometimes a friend just goes through the trials with their friend in quiet support of them getting better (whatever better means in this case).
Love the jokes, Wet!
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."