That lady singing - is she fat?

[Pyrite]

and NDY, every sitch is different. If she was in my face, like your sitch, I doubt I would have any control. Dont sell yourself short mate. I think you are a pillar to be in the face of it all the time.

I have "bad" thoughts every minute. Rather than trying to stop them, I find it is more productive to let them pass and concentrate on what you really should be appreciating. It might seem really dumb, but step by step, it works.