hold on! - 10

[Vanilla]

U

I want to address something that I think is very important indeed.

WW saying to you 'I wish you had killed yourself"?

I had the same remark from my H that he would be better off if I were dead. He meant it and did not apologise, tried to pass it off as a joke.

Well this is serious and most assuredly abusive. It negates your entire existance and once said can never be unsaid. Are you seeing an IC at the moment? Other than here is there someone safe you can talk to? This is something needing to disclose to your L.

I am concerned for you, remarks like this are more than cutting and button pushing. In a religious sense no right minded adult says this, a petulant child to a parent when they can't get their way, and we learn at 5 or 6 that this is unacceptable talk.

Please keep posting, if you want to talk this through.

We started a new abuse thread in newcomers if you want to consider a look.

With regard to D15 it's enough to say you are there. And hugs, lots of hugs. Sounds to me as if the children are in good hands with you. WW's damage is telling me that.

U well done on the dinner, baby step to normalise for your kids.

Big hugs and extra ones

V