W didn't react well to LRT, so I don't know what to do next. Sandi2's rules make sense, but if I practice no communication etc. that pushes her away, if I try to talk to her, that pushes her away. Problems, problems.
I hear ya. This is where I'm at as well. I'm just beginning to think I did it all wrong.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.