W has gone off to work, but I know she'll be back around 1400hrs. So, I've come downstairs with the kids and she has left her phone open on the kitchen side at a text she sent to her sister on Thursday. Well, I know I shouldn't, but it's not snooping if it's in plain sight, right?
It's a script of what she said to me on Thursday, virtually word for word. Now I know SIL is orchestrating this campaign from the background. I'm not going to do anything with this information. I guess she's been reviewing the past few days and has left it by accident. There is some hurtful stuff in there as well but that's what I expect.
To say she didn't want to sit on the new setee (couch, sofa) W has made herself quite comfortable on the recliner part and seems to have made that her new sitting place.
Tomorrow will be 12 weeks since this madness started and I'm beginning to think it's a lost cause. She's still so angry, appears to have no feelings left for me and is in constant denial about how upsetting this is for the kids and how destructive her behaviour has become. She has made no financial plans for the future (I know it's not my problem, but it'll become mine if the kids are involved) and seems to just bounce from scenario to scenario.
W didn't react well to LRT, so I don't know what to do next. Sandi2's rules make sense, but if I practice no communication etc. that pushes her away, if I try to talk to her, that pushes her away. Problems, problems.
Last edited by Huddy; 06/13/1508:56 AM. Reason: spelling
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
