Sorry to read that your sitch is suffering some of the same madness that mine is. I do often wonder what must be going on in their heads for the nice/not nice behavior. Hang in there my friend.
M: 50 W: 47 No kids together M: 10 T: 11 BD #1: 12/14 R #1: 7/15 BD #2: 1/18 D Filed: 6/18/18 D Final: 01/28/19 Currently still in-house