I recommend checking with your L to find out what judges like to see regarding phone calls. Personally, I'm kinda with you on thinking she doesn't need to disrupt yer time with the kids and disrupt the kids. But, would a judge think that was interfering with their relationship with the other parent. Idk.

I say just give her whatever a judge would approve of, according to your L. Of course she won't agree with whatever you decide. I think she's sometimes trying to find stuff to vex you and when you try to make a healthy, reasonable boundary, she says you are controlling her. My H is doing the same right now.

Last edited by DJin; 06/13/15 03:19 AM.

M: 16y
3 adult kids, 2 young kids
H filed D May/15, no svc yet
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