So much for this morning's plans... I'm sitting outside waiting for AAA to bring me a tire since I've got a flat, and the W just came running through like a chicken with its head cut off saying she has a sudden appointment with a new buyer, can we reschedule. I'm not sure when, since she's got all kinds of plans with the business and the OW as far as the eye can see. I will just keep doing what I'm doing. I might be gone before we get the chance to talk.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19
Okay... another set of classic lines from the WW this afternoon. She is on her way to a "listing appointment" (with friends of the OW), then they are all going to a lovely outdoor concert here in town. As she gets ready to go she says, "I'll be late tonight." I reply, "I figured." She asks, "Do you need me for anything?" "That's a loaded question." "Well, I've just started a load of laundry. The whites are in the washer, and the darks need to go in after." And she leaves.
I am supposed to spend my Friday night doing her laundry while she cavorts with her mistress? What planet does she live on? I sure hope she needs those white clothes early tomorrow, because they will be damp and in need of some drying...
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19
For the record... instead of laundry, I went to the gym, took a hike at the park, read my bible, drank whiskey, ate pizza, laughed with my kids, connected with a few friends on the phone, and decided to crash early enough to (hopefully) not hear how late the WW gets home. No guarantees on that last one, but I wish everyone on the boards here a peaceful and happy goodnight.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19
love you Matt... as much as I can without knowing you. yes, tomorrow will be better. Hang onto that hope...
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19
Thinking about you tonight, and sending good thoughts and prayers your way.
hugs, Diff
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19
love you Matt... as much as I can without knowing you. yes, tomorrow will be better. Hang onto that hope...
Hi DifRent,
I haven't had the chance to be online much lately. Just checking in on you.
Isn't Matt great? Heavy is, too! I am still LMAO about the whiskey and laundry comments.
I heard from Matt and Heavy tonight. You know what? Right after I post this I am going to dedicate a separate prayer for the 3 of you.
I care about you all so much.
*Hugs*
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
yes, tomorrow will be better. Hang onto that hope...
