It's kinda weird that she does look for contact. She definitely is carrying lots of baggage around still. Just keep the distance that you need to move on with whatever you do. You seem to be in an even better place since I checked in last time. Glad to hear!
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15