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I struggled with a lot of self blame as everyone says that it takes two to make a marriage work...took me years to realize that it only takes one to have a midlife crisis!


Hear hear!

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I worked very hard on improving my life.


THIS is the key!

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I own my own home now - yay! I've been promoted at work. I have been dating a hot younger man for several years now who makes me feel very wanted and sexy.


And THIS is the reward!!!!

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As for my ex....he's living with the other woman. She's crass with a very high school type of mentality and drinks a lot. They both have gained a massive amount of weight since they don't eat healthy or exercise. He's sick all the time and a serious health condition that had been under remission his whole time married to me is resurfacing now that he isn't living healthy.


Living well IS the best revenge wink

Good work, Buttercup!!!