Havent had the chance to read your old threae but thanks for posting V's reminder....it's a timely reminder for me as well. Pre-DB I used to do that a lot too. Mind reading and would never STFU! It took so much effort to a 180 on that but I'm slowly but surely becoming better at it.
That quick visit is a good idea, just remember not to bring up R. Went for a 'date' with exH 2 wks ago and the kind souls on this forums reminded me NOT to bring up R. I didn't and exH and I had so much fun..he's asking me out again tonight.
All the best to you PP!
Thank you as well for your kindness Arleen, I have no thoughts what so ever of bringing up R, or our old M. I just want to give her a hug, see my dog, and let her see the clarity in my eyes that was unfortunately missing for so many years that she's known me.
I'm glad that your date was successful and hope that you're on the road to healthy reconnection!
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
