Havent had the chance to read your old threae but thanks for posting V's reminder....it's a timely reminder for me as well. Pre-DB I used to do that a lot too. Mind reading and would never STFU! It took so much effort to a 180 on that but I'm slowly but surely becoming better at it.
That quick visit is a good idea, just remember not to bring up R. Went for a 'date' with exH 2 wks ago and the kind souls on this forums reminded me NOT to bring up R. I didn't and exH and I had so much fun..he's asking me out again tonight.
