Py, I'm a dude. So no hugs. A high five or perhaps a slap on the shoulder. You're an Austrian, you get that.
You are one deep dude. I read your thread hear and on Smothy's thread. Wow you know how to analyse.
I looked at your sig. I can't believe how little time you've been at this but your sitch is so advanced. I get how sh!t it is when your WW is flaunting her OM. It's a boot in the balls (I know you get that).
Not sure how much you follow my sitch. But I got the best advice ever the other day when everything was going pear shaped. Wonka basically said this...
Breath
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.