Hi Sunny. Thanks for posting. I think your right re EXW not accepting her part in this. She will text and call to say it's allmher fault but she will always say she doesn't know why she done what she has. When all this first started , I scoured the Internet for a reason as EXW was always Very loving and caring and she wanted us to work this out. It was me who refused to work on the M after EXW didn't want to be intimate anymore.
I'm my search the perimenopause seemed to fit my wife to a tee. I mentioned this to her and she went mad and would not entertains he idea I'm not excusing her in any way or trying to blame it all on one thing as I have seen my 50% in all this , it's just the change from loving caring mum and W into moody , depressed and uncaring person was like a light switch.
I can only control me and that's what I intend to do
I have looked at your post and will be posting soon
