Hi Toots. I agree with you on the sleeping thing A this stage I'm letting go of it all. I have set my boundriy re our friendship and that's that. With you and H I think that your H is able to miss you and your life together With EXW and I she is able to see my changes and she accepts them but I've been their for her emtionally whenever she needed me EXW has lost a lot but at the moment she is accepting of it.
EXW has been talking to D14 yesterday and telling her she is going through menopause and suffering a lot of the symptoms
D14 asked EXW was she happy and EXW answered that she was more unhappy now than before. D14 asked why EXW didn't change things EXW said the boys didn't like her , D14 didn't see EXW as her mum and D11 was only nice to EXW because she felt she had to be. D14 told EXW that all the children hated where she worked and who she was friends with. EXW said she would change things and she and D1; did up EXWs C.V.
Hi Pink. You are right , I need to sort this out but I am worried that EXW is not in the right place in her mind at the moment so what do I do. Tonight as I was driving home EXW called and asked why I was taking S20 . S16 /and D11 to the pictures as D11 was going to EXWs flat. EXW said I was been sneaky as D11 didn't know and might have wanted to go. I didn't answer and just said goodbye.
The reason I didn't tell D11 was so she would not feel left out and change her mi d about going to stay with EXW for the night ! !!!!!
Pink. I think I will stay on the path I am on and just accept what is. I'm very lucky to have my kids around me. My Ds are a joy and my princesses My S's are fantastic and as a unit we have a very loving and caring home. I miss EXW very much and I believe she is. very lost I can forgive but not forget and if reconciliation was ever on the table it would be too big a hurdle for me
Thank you both so much for the support you give me It's really needed right now
