Hello everyone, today started out rough got into a mild argument with W over me deleting a mutual friend from Facebook...! I'm not kidding.....FACEBOOK!!!!! What is this world coming to. I would like to submit the event to see if I handled it right. Lets call it learning for the next time because lord knows it's going to happen.
W- I just wanted to let you know that you hurt friends feelings by unfriending her. I thought we werent going to do anything unecessarily mean. I have no intention of unfriending your friends and family.
Me-W that was my choice and it was by far not mean. I explained myself to her clearly. And when this is all said and done, why would you want to keep my family and friends on your friends list. Sometimes you gotta let things go to move on from the past.
W- I just hope you are proud of your actions
M- Listen, don't say that stuff to me. I have done nothing wrong. I was nice and honest. It's just facebook.
W- Just because you and I are not together does not mean the relationships that were built over the last 7 years mean nothing. If you want to go back on what we discussed then that certainly is your decision. Do what you gotta do.
M-You are right the relationships we built do mean something very very true! But that is just it. I'll be her friend always, but I don't need the Facebook reminders anymore. So from here on out could you please not tell me how we were going to stay friendly towards one another and anyone else, because I think I've done an amazing job thus far. And I don't appreciate every time I do something you don't agree with you throw that in my face. What I did has nothing to do with you. Like you said we are no longer together. So when randy said she was hurt by it; you should have just said I'm sorry but you know we are all in a difficult place, "supported my action" that was not done out of spite. And left it at that. No need to turn around and come at me with it. Or that"I hope your proud of your actions" statement!
W-I was honest with you and I have said what I needed to say. Bye.
