Sit and Spin

[mvg]

Went through the same thing, 50/50, no support, alimony, etc. It's horrible. My state is a no-fault state which amazes me. She went out had the affair, is still with the guy, is already bringing him to family functions....and I lose 50% of my financial rights. WTF?!? I too had no desire to be adverserial but you know what? That takes two mature adults to participate. Some unsolicited advice? If you sense that your STBXW is at all vindictive or angry, play by the book. I failed to provide receipts for a few expenses and my XW is making a huge problem out of it. Play by the book, cover you a**. Good luck!!!!

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