[mvg]

Hey man,

I was in your shoes last year..hurt like hell...bad. Then, maybe Starsky? asked me, "Is this a woman worth fighting for?" He was right. She wasn't. Today, I'm almost 8 months past that day and I feel great (aside from her BS with the kids, schedule, etc) You are going to go through hell, keep going. There is fresh air on the other side...it's sunnier and smells better...trust me. Every day right now will feel like a month, suck it up, you can do it. Think like a Navy Seal, like a warrior, like Bruce Lee, whoever...you can do it. She is not worth your energy or focus. I hope this doesn't come across as cold or callous, it's not meant to. Post on here often, it helps. Go for a bike ride. Go see buddies. DO NOT sit in your house and wonder what you did wrong....because you probably didn't do anything wrong enough to deserver this. Head up.

-mvg