GAL has been great. Went out Tuesday night and WW sends me a TM asking if I can bring dinner to my S12 since she had to work until 8:00. I guess I didn't see the first text and by the time I noticed she text me it was 7:15. I replied that I would but I was over an hour away and she agreed to hold the fort for the night.
Wednesday the WW texts me that maybe I should just move out since I was neglecting my responsibilities. Keep in mind this is the 3rd time I have gone out it the last 6 months. My reply was simply "Seriously?" WW sent me a few more texts to which I ignored or replied with an emoji.
Thursday the texts continued. WW asking about lawyer details and if I was taking S12 to BB practice. I kept the responses nice and short. A good night with the kids, kept them up a little late but all in fun.
WW shows up at the house around midnight and makes enough noise to ensure I know she's there... This morning I asked to what we owe the honor of her presence, apparently not funny.
Her account is overdrawn and I asked her about it and she spewed all over me. How she isn't going to beg for money for our kids and she shouldn't have to ask, I should just give her money until she "figures it out". Then she says don't worry about it.
I wish her a good day and go to my car. I decide to write her a check when I notice she followed me out and continued her spew. I ignored her, wrote a check and left it where she would find it later.
The weekend is filled with kids events and I plan on getting out Sat night to meet a friend. I really can't explain the freedom I am experiencing from being out from under her spell.
I really don't know what the future holds for our M and that's ok.
Me42 W40 S12 D8 M:15yrs BD 3/27/15 D filed 4/27/15
