The pursuer/distancer dynamic does not exist in our relationship. I pull back and W couldn't care less.
I get this as well. All WW can do with me is two emotional states. Angry or very angry. Funny, no apathy yet.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
