W had calmed down after her bath last night. Left her phone on the table as she had said I had been snooping on her. Funny, I didn't feel the urge to look.
W has called me twice this morning about meaningless stuff.
The mind of a WAS is weird!
Did you speak to her? Sounds like a temp check to me.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Spoke to her as she phoned on works phone and her number doesn't show.
I think all that spew yesterday was a 'is he still attached check'. I do know she has made no financial planning decisions but has been to the bank to make sure I can't take my name of the joint account without her say so. Why would you do that if you were so desperate to exit a relationship?
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
Well ok. Open your own account. But don't leave her without any money especially if she is the primary carer for the kids.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
I think W is working. I've just been home as the furniture we ordered in February is being delivered and SD starts her new job, so when W was spewing yesterday, she said she wasn't going to wait in for it.
She was different today, light conversation etc. No idea what's going on here. I have taken SD to her new job and W is awaiting furniture.
Somebody wake me up when this rubbish is over.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
I think W is working. I've just been home as the furniture we ordered in February is being delivered and SD starts her new job, so when W was spewing yesterday, she said she wasn't going to wait in for it.
She was different today, light conversation etc. No idea what's going on here. I have taken SD to her new job and W is awaiting furniture.
Somebody wake me up when this rubbish is over.
Just be careful mate. Remember how I mentioned that calm had descended on the NDY household not so long ago? Now look at it.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Huddy, it took me a little while to catch up on your situation. I am sorry mediation has not worked out positively.
You say you are getting the booby prize, maybe it isn't. maybe it is the moving forward that is needed. I don't want to say D is the right thing and the end. it seems your W is very angry towards you. for her to be this angry suggests that she is still attached.
Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18 EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13 Move to work abroad Sept 14 re establish contact with OW while away D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15
I check your sitch every day, but don't contribute unless I have something that can add some value to you.
The fact that she has done no financial planning of her own suggests she is ill prepared. W has planned for house to go on market at the end of next week. Potentially, we could be out by September and she hasn't even looked into how much money she would need.
I caught her smiling before she let a tirade off recently. I'm just wondering if she's trying to see how much I really want to be with her, wich leads into rope dropping etc. W didn't react well to LRT and was very interested yesterday in one of my GAL activities from a few weeks ago.
Furniture delivered and W texts to say how nice it is. Yesterday, it was 'your setee, your problem' - bizarre!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
