Hi Pink. Thanks for posting. Got three calls from EXW yesterday and each one was about nothing. She was hanging on at the end of each call as if she wished to talk I finished the calls

Saw L/C yesterday and it did not go well. She said I had no hope of reconciliation as I did not trust EXW and I needed to accept that OM was a codependent person who drags people into his sorrow. L/C said she didn't think I was trying to help myself by my thoughts and that she (L/C) had met with EXW numorous times and was 100% that EXW was helping OM while EXW was going through her own issues

L/C said I needed to clear my head of negative thoughts and accept what EXW is saying and this would all work itself out.

L/C was not happy that I was not friends with EXW anymore and said EXW had to sort herself out but also needed support as she was getting none anywhere else

EXW also told D's that she was leaving job where she works with OM and was looking for work elsewhere

I'm fairly down at the moment as I'm not sure I can accept what EXW is saying and maybe that's because I'm too immature I've always been the jealous type and at 49'will that change ?

I hope your having a good day Take care. Rd