That lady singing - is she fat?

[Pyrite]

Z, another way maybe - thats exactly what I am wrapping up. I am handing it to her on a platter. The balls in her court entirely. If she gets nasty, then we're ready to go there.

According to where I'm told this usually ends up, in a hardcore custody dispute, I've done all the work, and am committed. I have facilitated this so far. And I didn't even want this. So I'm dropping the B in her court now.

I want her to know that I do this without malice. As parents I am suggesting that she consider the most stable of the two households. Mine.

In the meantime she has introduced the children to this "boy" on a temporary work visa, to her friends, parents, family, FB....and her children. I formally requested at mediation for her to consider that including this other man who seems to replace Daddy is not in the best interests of the girls on many levels.

Their relationship with me. Their development of relationship issues. Besides, nobody knows who this guy is.

Anyway, gotta run for now.


I acknowledge now the pressure I am putting her under,