Was not able to change flight without it costing a gazillion dollars, so heading back home today. Trying to get in the right head space for seeing H, especially after things left so tense. Plan to be light, content, and friendly and acting as if I am moving on. I have decided to no longer focus on A and will try not to bring it up again. Will keep conversation short and not spend time lingering in same room. Any other tips or words of encouragement?

I still have this weekend away for wedding with H coming up next week. Still contemplating not going given how angry H was before I left. Not sure I can sit next to H and listen to another couple say vows to each other. Will see how this weekend goes and play it by ear.

Last edited by BW05; 06/12/15 05:18 AM.
Me: 42 H: 40
M: 12
H moved out - 8/2015
I filed - 8/2015