MLC W Dates, Part 9

[kat727]

And again why are you worrying about it? It is whatever it is. She isn't working on the marriage and that is where your thoughts of it should stop.

You still keep looking for glimmers of hope here and there. While I get that, all it does, is keep you stuck. Tom, I get how hard it is, but no one is going to get you through this but you. I have been here eight years and the script is nearly the same. People do get through this, very few reconcile their marriages, I try to help people get through the painful part faster, but honestly, most linger in the pain for some reason. It takes everyone their own time. Everyone has to do the work on themselves if they want to be healthy and happy in the end. You can do this.