That lady singing - is she fat?

[Zues126]

I think not sending her letters would convey the message that you are detached more than writing it to her...but maybe you're so detached you don't care what message she's getting

Yeah, I don't sweat a few breaks from reality. I think there are many benefits to it but I don't want to start a grassroots movement on the DB forums. I know you're ok.

I can't wait for you to get another 6 months out. Man does it get easier. I'm telling you, this last year I've put so much work into cleaning up my act, I feel emotionally big and strong as if I'd been working out every day...with steroids...stuff that would have soul crushed me to the point of being suicidal just 12 months ago now is like "that's tacky she'd treat me that way". What a blessing. I know you're doing better, and I just want more and more peace and joy in your world. Good job Py.

Only tip is not to stop. Keep digging. Don't mistake acceptance of a loss with growth. They are two different things. Almost everyone gets over the loss. But really take the time to grow as well.

Remind me again, what are some of your personal growth goals? Let's not let that fall off the radar, that's the name of the game!