Her Birthday is coming up. As far as DBing goes should I give her a small neutral gift and a card?

Or nothing?

Obviously taking her to a nice dinner is out of the question.

M44 H37
D13 S8 S6
Married 14
W is stay at home mom
ILYBNIWY:9-28-14
A started 04/2014
OM confirm 11/24/2014
Admit PA 01/05/2015
09/11/2015 W file for D and wants the moon