Isn't that interesting and a good feeling, when you feel yourself come back and blossom. Trying to figure out how I can keep that version of me in my M with H.
About your son - I would say, 'Both of us want to be with you as much as we can, so we're going to figure out something that's fair to you and to us.' I'd listen to him, and then reassure him that you and WW will figure something out. You can use this approach always - just be reassuring that the adults will take care of things, so he doesn't have to worry.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
Trying to figure out how I can keep that version of me in my M with H. 