RosaLinda, wow quiet the story but I love reading it. You are amazingly strong & know what's best for you !!
My H lives at the lake in our brand new camping trailer with our brand new boat because I got the house. He was telling me that he was not going to be around for the weekend in case I was leaving too for the weekend in case our girls had an emergency but they are old enough now that I don't think that I need to know his whereabouts? As far as OW, he says that they all are just friends ( female friends)LOL
He usually does tell me when he comes over to the house & I will certainly work on anwsering him with ok or nothing from now on especially after I read Matt777 3 questions.
My H texted me while at work to see if I was going home after work cause he got his debit card fixed & he wanted to pay some of the $ he owed me (which I should'nt never gave in the first place), so I told him I wasn't sure yet cause I usually go for a mental drive or I go read somewhere quiet after work but when I got out of the hospital where I work he was there waiting for me. It was a complicated conversation of almost one hours besides the road. We got tooooo much in details of tooooo many thing AGAIN.
I did get the $ & he cried when we talked about our girls being different and quiet with him.....he didn't like that & he didn't understand why.....
After that I went for my drive and I cried and cried and cried because I told him that I was releasing the boat & the camper to him because I didn't feel like it was ours anymore and that made him sorta happy because now he can bring his female friends fishing & camping....
I cried because I knew he was going to bring them there even if I didn't tell him it was fine but I hurt me really bad to let my 2 favorite things we did together go
I got home maybe an hour later and he texted me again that he was coming because he wanted to set me up with my fishing rod so I can go fishing with some family this summer.
Our girs were happy to see him I think but I was still so hurt for everything he was making me go through that there was very long silence in the conversation, he sat there looking down and he was not saying anything, I had to make conversations about the weather so he could at least finish my fishing rod. I asked him why he was doing that because I could of figured it out or ask the family to do it,,,,,he kept saying I don't mind...(not really an anwswe)
I wish I could know exactly what to do and say EVERYTIME we talk & text....I'm just horrible at this
