I needed to hear what yall said. Zues what you said allowed me to breathe and refocus. You are 100% absolutely right on everything you said. Matt you're right about being in trouble if I believe everything she says. I just get so caught in the moment when we are talking I have to learn to step away to refocus.

Seriously thanks for what you guys said. I needed it. Tough love, right?

Me: 32 Her: 29
M: 5 T: 11
D2
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me)
W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15
Papers served 6-3-15
Temporary Order 7-15-15
W Moved out 7-17-15