Let me remind you something. The timelines involved are measured in years, not in months.
Somehow people read that and nod their heads up and down, but then they get a civil text from their WAS and think their sitch will be different. I guess it's denial, so we manage through the grief we need to.
But yes. The M is over. She is divorcing you. You will need to suffer this loss fully, grieve, rebuild your life, address your wounds, grow as a person, learn to meet your own needs, and find peace on your own in your new life.
Somewhere way down the road you two may connect in what will feel like another life. But it won't save you from the road in front of you.
You're very new in your sitch and this is very raw. I'm sorry. This is par for the course. Hopefully this is what it takes to let go for real, as opposed to strategically. Good luck.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
