I'm not sure I want to do any damage control. My husband initiated a divorce last summer only to drop it when he realized we needed to live sep and apart for a year. It's been hanging over my head throughtout this last year and frankly I find that unsettling and cruel. The law is better in my state so that was my plan. Wait a year, and if things were still going on w the OW then I would file so I don't end up divorced in a random state where the law doesn't work in my favor. As far as reaching out to her, no way to take that back but I maintained the high road. She sounded uneducated and rude. I do wish I had waited a few hours and calmed down a bit. Lesson learned!! Thank you and I will keep the number close


M: 53 H:53 M: 30 years
D:29, D 27, D 25
BD: 6/2/14
Proof of OW 7/7/14
D filed 8/14 (H)
D dropped 1/15 (H)
3/15 H reaching out
06/01/15 Proof of OW still
06/17/15 I filed