Glad you had that beer! I think Cal brought up a great point. When I first read your post, it didn't occur to me, either.
That's one of the many reasons this forum is so helpful. Getting different perspectives helps me all the time.
Take care!
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15