Four Months Now

[FunDad]

It's been several months since I have posted so here is an update in case anyone following me was curious. We went through the divorce. I don't think there was any way to stop it. We have been living separately for about a year now. Finances were split and everything turned out ok for both of us. Most of the hurt feelings have subsided on both our sides and we work together pretty well to co-parent our children. We help each other with emergencies also. Our relationship is actually pretty healthy this way and I'm so thankful we have at least reconciled as friends. That would have been another level of devastation to not only loose her as a wife, but as a friend also. Kids are doing good for the most part. I'm able to pick up some things that I let go along the way that are very exciting to me, including getting back in to the military. For anyone going through a divorce, please check out divorce care dot org and find a local group in your area. It's an amazing source of support and healing that will help you through the pain and help to find your hope on the other side. :-)