Will do. Thanks to 25years for the lashing I need and Job for the sound advice!
I just had a rough couple of days and I understand why and will figure out a way around it next time it happens instead of almost melt down!
However, At the rate you're going, I"m afraid he won't see enough change in you that he can believe the marriage would be better/different than before.
25years I know I what you are saying. I do think I have done much better about asking R questions and I do not communicate or question him unless he initiates and even then I never ask questions about what he is doing or going etc which is a big change for me. I come here to post my thoughts and questions and to show my weakness when I am feeling it that way he doesn't see it.!!
I hope I am making good changes for myself especially in the self esteem category which effects me directly. Last couple of days I lost some but I am back on top today! So Thanks for the reminder!
