Pink's Journey # 3 - Learning to detach

[Sotto]

Hello Pink - I agree, it sounds like you did really well. I agree that your H still sounds confused and somewhat regretful. But you say you are confused and I say don't be!

The important things here are actions not words. Your H says he feels sad and misses you and so on. What he doesn't do is ACT. He doesn't end things with OW. Express a sincere wish to work on the M and so on.

And of course, until or unless he gets to that point, he's really not worrying about, and you should keep DBing and moving forward with your own life. He will catch up if he truly wants to for sure. And if he truly wants to reconcile from the very bottom of his heart, you're not going to miss that either.

My exciting news is I have moved to the midlife crisis area of the forum with my new thread. I wasn't able to post a link from my old thread in Infidelity, so I hope people can find me!! Take care lovely P xxx