I will need to wait until I have calmed down to say anything more to H about what I plan to wear. Voice would NOT be nice right now.
And this has been ongoing for like 2 weeks, every so often he brings up the questions "did you find another dress" "what abot this type of dress" today he even suggested what store I usully buy my dresses from...
Today he also wanted to review what he planned to wear. I DON'T CARE!
I told him today, that I was pretty set on the dress I have at home, that IF I found something I liked better...
This has been something that has always been an issue for me, with him wanting to "dress" me.
Now I had on my own before today's conversation order some other dresses, (my weight gain has made it harder for me to find something Im comfortable in). And I think that combined with H wanted to "help me" is rubbing me the WRONG WAY!
These dresses have not arrived yet, but now I want to be stubborn and just wear the one I have regardless of if I like the ones coming better. Heck I want to feel sexy and cute for me, but not for H, for me! I don't want him to think I picked another dress (if I do) based on his requests.
I'm going to tell him I hear his suggesstions, THANK YOU, but I'm going to pick the dress I feel the best in.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
