My story pt 2

[Kembo05]

I can't reason with her because she is so illogical right now. The series of events:

1. I called doctor to book appointment to help my W out
2. I immediately go in a meeting at work so I will just tell my W after the meeting and we can reschedule if she wants to
3. Wife calls doctor to book appointment, finds out it has already been booked and then texts me to vent
4. I explain I was going to tell her after the meeting and she says I should have talked to her before even calling the doctor.
5. I say I can understand her being frustrated about not knowing.
6. She says she isn't frustrated, she is angry and she wanted to talk about it later. I said I had a 30 minute break if she wanted me to call her and she said she thinks it would be better to wait until later. (She is that angry?!?!)

I'm guessing I should just validate her anger/frustration? It's so silly, I think she is just baiting me or deflecting anger/frustration about our situation into something that is so petty.

Honestly, I was trying to book that appointment and take my D2 so my W would have 1 less thing to worry about, but somehow that turns into her getting angry at me? unreal.