RosaLinda, I have been with him longer than I have been alone in my life (im 44-29y with him=15 y old so at the moment any music or any meals or desert I cook, reminds me of him.....everything reminds me of him, I'm having such a hard time with it cause everywhere I turn it remind me of him. BUT.....I will figure it out.
This whole situation is a blessing in disguise really because I wasn't happy but it is hard to re-focus 29y of my life on me & my girls !!
Stopping myself from the compulsion to fix/rescue/organize everything is very hard for me.....MY MAIN GOAL at the moment.
I have cut down on texting to bare minimum especially with emotional support from him through text that is all done done.
I think he might be turning to alcohol because of a Facebook status that my oldest daughter saw and he pre-disposition to it. I was the voice of reasoning for him with alcohol. But now that he is alone.....I can see him going at it hard.
LOVE those kind of signature....It helps me understand you better.
RosaLinda....I see you are not with your H.....did he ever came out of his MLC & did you ever consider taking him back?
