Matt777, you really think that he is keeping me as plan B, that he wants to keep me around? What do you think the logic behind it is? Im understanding it
That's what I am seeing from all the WAS'. They think they want this freedom, this new life, this happiness that's OUT THERE. In doing that, they aren't ready to ACTUALLY cut the cord. They want to string the LBS along in case the real world they encounter isn't what they thought it would be. So, they hand out little crumbs to keep the LBS attached.
That's why we all work so hard to detach. To cut that cord. To remove the safety net. Let them think they can't fall back to that faithful LBS just sitting around waiting. If we play along with their game, it lets them think their choices don't matter. It's not our job to protect them anymore.