Why sunday? How do you know sunday? What is the schedule that has been communicated/dictated? Have you agreed to it (if not, don't yet)?
She and I had agreed previous arrangements for S9 to be with her most of the weekend doing fun things. It's been planned for a while and I have no reason to expect their plans to have changed. Sunday is the 'early' fathers day as he will be away the weekend of the 21st (yes, that caused a bit of friction).
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You should have 50/50 time with son.
We've always agreed this. But after last night I'm cautious.
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You should have the right of first refusal (so that she can't just leave son with her mom and go out on dates with OM without asking you first if YOU want to be with son that night.
Agreed.
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Right now, absent an agreement, you could pick son up from school yourself and see him if you want.
Yes, this is true but, remember she's trying to paint me in a bad light. By starting to say words like abuse and mental stability I've now no idea what she is capable of. I can handle waiting until the L gets back with advice. It's all in the email to him.
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I also think anything you can do to keep that house for as long as possible should be considered. If she stays separated and a 50-50 temp custody agreement is reached, then consider any second job you can get for days you don't have your son to help you afford the house. Keeping the house (and allowing WW to see you are capable of doing so) will, for some time, give you better odds of saving your marriage and family. Propose she sell you her half at the price she proposed awhile back.
I was thinking about this last night. I will need to work our the finances to see how long I can keep up the house before being forced to sell. I'll also look at part time work here or see if I can get some consultancy work that I can do in the evenings.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
