You two have had some really intense interactions lately. As Cali said earlier, you two need space to cool off a bit. It is not a bad thing. Your W clearly knows your position on the D and your stance on no contact with the OM in the house.
NDY, hey buddy, I can't imagine what you are going through. My friend Wonka's advice is sterling, as always.
Try to stay as calm as possible. Take things one step at a time.
Regards,
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
