Sad, expensive but really necessary, I'm afraid. Has she made contact today?
No, and I don't expect to hear anything. I will be strict with NC but it now means I wont see S9 until Sunday.
Why sunday? How do you know sunday? What is the schedule that has been communicated/dictated? Have you agreed to it (if not, don't yet)?
You should have 50/50 time with son.
You should have the right of first refusal (so that she can't just leave son with her mom and go out on dates with OM without asking you first if YOU want to be with son that night.
Right now, absent an agreement, you could pick son up from school yourself and see him if you want.
I also think anything you can do to keep that house for as long as possible should be considered. If she stays separated and a 50-50 temp custody agreement is reached, then consider any second job you can get for days you don't have your son to help you afford the house. Keeping the house (and allowing WW to see you are capable of doing so) will, for some time, give you better odds of saving your marriage and family. Propose she sell you her half at the price she proposed awhile back.
The internet is 90% complaining and entitlement and I hate it because I deserve better!
