DJ lovely post, I also believe the first stage here for HeavyD is to detach from WW. Take off that collar and let go of the outcome. I too think WW is confused about who she wants to be but whilst WW can pull the chain this is really distressing and this is evident to me in HeavyDs posts.
To let WW do the running on the D, to protect these precious children with an L.To allow things to unfold in time, to have patience and rest, a little peace in life, to enjoy her children, to be the lighthouse. To lighten and a good dose go GAL. I would enjoy reading these things on HeavyDs thread.
I like the idea of sitting spinning, then weaving a beautiful fine wool garment, sheer and full of shimmer and beautiful colours. Something glamorous and gorgeous to wear.
HeavyD patience comes with detachment. It will come to you when you choose to let go of the outcome. Let WW work her stuff and brave one look after you and those precious children.
Breathe
In essence this extra special AP is a scuzzy. Scuzzies do what scuzzies do best behave as scuzzies. Amoral scuzzies eventually move on, this scuzzy offers no prospects in the long run and that must be clear to WW. Married with a family and 600 miles away, in an open M.
In order to become a partner that no fool would leave requires enormous growth and detachment. This is the start of your journey, it will take time and consistency. I read change already and much more to come.
Peace
V
Last edited by Vanilla; 06/11/1508:39 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
