Yea, I know. For the next day or so I'm going to heed wonkas advice and just breath. I've already contacted a lawyer so will speak to him again today. I have the familiar knot I'm my stomach so right now I'm trying to let go of the fear and detach. I know my L rights but a few people have said to let both her and I cool off. I think that's good advice.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.